He’s a worthy King indeed

How in the world,in our lifestyle can you tell when one has earned the title, ‘King’?

First of all, I’m not new. Any man in the lifestyle, that refers to himself as royalty, is usually one I don’t give the time of day to, never have. A dominant should exude confidence, not arrogance. There’s a huge difference. 

The dominant who can juggle all aspects of His life (work,family,play) has my respect. Pay attention to the wording, I said juggle , not has all the answers. He’s still human. 

If He is kind to children, and animals, except snakes hates those. Can He be gallant? We all know that men want a lady on their arm in public, and a freak in the sheets. No problem there. But I want the same from my dominant. Will He be the gentleman who opens the car door, and grabs my ass too?! He does!

I want a man who worries about me, will be funny and silly with me. Who can make it a night of bdsm, or just something sexy and hot, Both make me cum, it’s about effort. Can He cook? Cuz I will clean. When I’m sick, am I a priority.

I see Him, as He is. He’s strong, but He needs a woman by His side with strength too, a partner in His life. Someone He can talk to, share His secrets with and knows that no one will ever hear it. 

He needs to know that she has His back. That she’s close to Him, clings to Him but that they can go there own ways and still be 100% committed. She His ‘ ride or die’, cuz He would be hers if He has to. Care for Him when He’s sick. His goals are her goals, and vice versa. He can make someone else a priority at times, she doesn’t blink, she knows it’s for the moment. 

She can tell when He just needs some time to Himself, she doesn’t take it personal, but pushes Him to rest and put Himself first every now and then. They make their relationship a priority, but know it takes both to work at it. Any holidays and she will go pick a gift, she knows He has more important things to do. 

If He’s off with friends, family, or His club she knows she is still on His mind. And He’s on hers!

He makes her talk so He knows what’s on her mind, what she’s stressing about. He wants to guide her, encourage her, help her. They are always there for each other.

They know the goals they have set for themselves,kids, etc… And they both work together as a team. When one succeeds, they both do! 

This is how I know He’s my king. He never insisted I call Him that, He’s to humble. But He deserves the title, it’s been earned a million times over. 

When I look at Him, really look. I see a man with lots of friends, family, and His club but still really lonely. My job is to fill that void, to become everything He needs. Be His partner, His lover, His babygirl, His slave. Cuz I’m just like Him! We have all the stuff ( job, family, friends, kids) but to grow old with someone, cherish the love they give you, take care of their heart. Then you have found someone worthy , someone who should be treated like a king, called ‘ My King’. For He is everything to me! 

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As my mind wanders

The drive was a long one, but worth it. I found something for Daddy’s birthday and I really wanted it! The store near me didn’t have it, so they gave me the closest store, it was far, but I know I’m going! Took the boys with me! girls were doing other things, Daddy was busy, so off we go…

As we drive thru a part of the next town, we were in the area of 4 homes we had lived in. My mind started going fast like a movie, it was scenes in each home and how violent our lives were back then. It was my ex, the monster. He hides it so well from the world, but underneath he’s really a big piece of shit, as far as human beings go. No one who meets him thinks he’s capable of all he put us through, but we aren’t crazy, and we did survive.

The fighting, yelling, hitting, bruises, screaming, and tears. How each of us suffered ( me and 3 kids). We were lost, and never thought it would stop. But I didn’t know the memories were still there, not all of them. Plenty were blocked. My boys started remembering how bad our lives had been. If you ever believed in zombies, well that was the four of us once separation set in. I will never know how I got out, I just knew I needed out. I’m still alive!

None of us had any idea how to do this life, figure out this world. I was the leader, so it felt up to me to make the first move. 

* Side note* when you are trying to get free from a sociopath narcissist nothing is easy, after 8 years we all still have some fear of his wrath. We know what he’s capable of, you have no idea.

Today is a new and wonderful time in our lives. We made it out of hell. Well most of us, three of us to be exact. One is still stuck by a parenting plan, but plz sweet girl hang on, I’m trying to save you. I really am. I need some hope, so does she.

The only hope we have really have, has been since my Daddy started taking over my life. I was this shell of a person, He showed me things I’ve never seen before. He treats me as I’ve never been treated before. I’m always grateful that even if we disagree He still loves me, He doesn’t hurt me mentally, emotionally, physically.He wants me to be fine. But I don’t think He has any idea how days like today make me happy that He’s here for me and the kids. We aren’t scared. Well a little maybe, but my ex is to scared himself to hurt anyone of us, since Daddy is the first man that ever wanted to stay. I feel protected,safe. We all have someone to go to now, cops never did a good damned thing to save any of us, neither did the courts.

I remember the first time Daddy stayed the night, actually for the first so many months I wouldn’t sleep much. I was so afraid He might try to kill me in my sleep, as my ex had tried so many times. I learned to not sleep, so I could stay alive. Now I sleep better when Daddy is in bed next to me, it’s the best sleep I’ve ever had! Thank you Daddy! You will never know what this means to me, that I can trust you so deeply. No one ever spent the night in my bed before, because of fear. They weren’t allowed in my home, cuz of fear. No guy near my kids , again cuz of fear. 

We were very fucked up, maybe we still are to some degree. Once Daddy arrived, I think He saw the damage, but I don’t think even now He fully gets the extent of the violence, maybe He does. I’m thankful that He doesn’t want to talk about it. He knows some, enough to know we are thankful He is in our lives. Weird thing is, we had cried to Him ” please don’t let the asshole hurt us”. I’m not sure what this does to Him when He hears our pleas. 

How does He feel about our pleas? Does He feel keeping us safe could get dangerous? How does He process all the violence we have all been thru? Does He even realize how much we owe Him for the safe feeling we have now? 

This family finally feels complete. We have a protector in our lives. If you’ve never been thru abusive hell than you won’t understand that kind of joy. 

Problems? We ain’t got no stinkin problems.

Today is about problems within your bdsm relationship and how we deal with them. My girlfriend’s each have a different area of their lives that is challenging right now. That’s reality. Even those crazy vanilla people have problems to. But within bdsm we are supposed to be more connected, deepen our communication, make the Dom, or sub more important so we can avoid problems.

Funny thing, no matter what, life hands you lemons. It’s what you do with them that counts. OK, so vetting is one thing, and in bdsm we definitely encourage it. Take the time to see if this is the person for you. Can you be in charge of this sub/slave? Can you submit to this Dom? These are great questions, but many only see the sex side, and forget that a real relationship is forming. Put sex aside, if you can’t ,at least in your mind so you can be real with yourself. Do you really belong with this person? My true thoughts here : is that you will need 3-6months to truly answer that question. No one can hide their true self forever, and don’t lie to yourself. Some of you knew it was wrong from the start(anyone can tell, you’re in denial). 

I know in the wonderful world of bdsm, it’s damn hard to wait for “the one”. But I’m gonna say it! Yep, it’s so worth it! My Daddy is “the one”. A bit of advice, you CAN find ‘ the one’ , and still fuck it up. So take your time. If you’re planning long term, then taking your time just makes sense. I’ve trained subs/slaves for a long time. The hardest part was telling them everything I’m writing here, to have it fall on deaf ears. They would be collared in weeks, maybe a month. Yes, I have a problem with that. It’s the equivalent to an engagement ring, would you get engaged after weeks with someone, I’m hoping the answer is no. These same women come crying to me pretty fast, that it didn’t work out and I trained them wrong. Nope, I’m not responsible for your victim shit.

What went wrong so fast? Well, do you really know each other. Did you accept that person and all their baggage? If you want any relationship, you must realize we ALL have baggage. Unless your Dom/sub has been on a deserted island for many years , highly unlikely, then we all come with baggage. For the relationship to work, you must be comfortable enough to unpack that baggage, and both sort it all out. First, get past the honeymoon phase, usually 3-6 months. If you can get to that point and you still respect each other, the passion is alive and burning, you have a chance.

This is no ordinary relationship. If you have or are a Dom, you’re in charge of this crazy train. Hopefully you’ve weighed it all and feel you want the sub before you, her baggage too. As his/her Dom you will require him/her unpack and start moving on from the past. Set her up to be the best she can be. The Dom sets the tone , rules, structure, boundaries within this relationship. So it’s up to the Dom to present to you have He/She wants the relationship. Yeah subbies, you might get many choices, or any at all.  If He is kind ,He will want to know your thoughts on how you feel. He still has final say. My own Daddy will ask for my real thoughts, so if I’m questioning anything, confused, or feel I’m not wanting something in my life well ,we talk. I usually ask for time to think, He has granted that each time, He knows I’m a thinker. He knows when I’m ready I will ask to talk soon. I always know He is listening to me. I also know His word is final say. If at any point I can no longer serve Him, I’m free to walk away, but He would rather I communicate first. Since I suck at communication I do try my best to respectfully say what I need to say, in hopes that He’s listening and can guide me if I’m not correct in how I see things,Which is my turn to listen. We aren’t perfect, but we’ve come a long way!

As the sub, remember you serve. Can you serve on your good days and bad days too. There is no difference to the Dom in your life. He will want to know why you’re not yourself, Dom/sub, we are all human, but you still serve Him. I can only think of a few times you’d be excused from serving, at least for a bit. 

1. You died, jk. A family/friend died

2. You had a baby

3. You’re sick as a dog

4. There could be a few more, but nothing comes to mind.

Can a sub really deal with serving even when it feels the world is against you. Because that’s what you’re signing up for. I get to hear subs complain, “He treats me like I’m His indentured servant”. My first thought , ‘ I’m not surprised’, but you are,why? We made it clear what a submissive is/does. If you romanticized it, or thought it wasn’t really like that, who’s problem is that?

In the lifestyle, we have vanilla times/ moments. But we are still fully lifestyle. Even after my surgery, my Master wanted to know how I was doing, when would I be myself again. Was He being selfish,No,I am His. We are not vanilla, although while I healed we had some vanilla moments. His actions before/ after surgery showed me how much He loves me, His property. And I was focused on getting better quickly, I love to serve, it gives me purpose. I am happy when I can do for Him. He can count on me. Are we perfect, not by a long shot, but we are very good together, we balance each other very well. And after all this time together, that’s promising. We couldn’t fake it this long, OK a complete psycho could, but we are normal kinky ppl.

When I hear issues from friends, my first thought is, ‘ go talk to your dominant’. I do listen, but I will want you to do the work that our lifestyle requires. ‘ is this the real problem?’ , ‘ is there something underlying going on instead?’ ‘what is your struggle really about?’. I don’t like excuses, I like working on it. I like to think first, especially in my own life. I ask myself if this is why I’m really upset. Think it through. 

I do like the concept of living together first before anything to permanent. Do you really belong together? Where do squeeze the toothpaste from? Do you talk or fight? Can you clean up after your dominant day after day? ( Even after a hard day at work). How will you balance Dom/work/kids? ( Or is calgon just gonna take you away each night). It’s hard to get upset with your dominant when you signed up for this life. You knew what you were getting into, now you’re trying to act like a victim. Nope. Can you imagine if you got married to quickly? You would have to stick it out, or go get divorced, but there were answers right before your eyes, you ignored them. 

I guess you lied to yourself. You lied to your SO. You don’t have follow thru, or you watched 50 shades. Sorry subbies not every Dom is a millionaire, or gonna let you call the shots. You really will be serving Him, cleaning/dusting/vacuuming/ doing laundry/dishes/cooking/ entertaining/ raising kids , in His castle. 

In our lifestyle it’s not up for debate, it’s not a democracy, it’s the Dom’s way or no way. Now hopefully you took your time and got the right Dom for you. Not a fake or phony. Someone looking for a victim, or  He’s an abuser. This is your life, plan it well. Keep in mind, we all have our way of doing things, we all have problems. In the lifestyle we should be working on those problems, and any that come up in the relationship. How you communicate and work things out, should tell you a lot. Will you and your dominant last a long time? I hope you can honestly say yes. 

Problems will show up from time to time. It’s how you and your dominant tackle them together that counts. Just keep in mind, no one is perfect. But two ppl who want the same things, grow together, listen, and find their balance in our lifestyle have a great chance at succeeding. 

Happy Holidays, Happy Hanukkah ( Starts tonight!).

– His babygirl

He’s always dominant,  I’m always submissive 

Do you ever days when you just don’t like the lifestyle,  be honest. Because we all do. Whether it be life’s stresses, you’re sick, personal issues in your life,  there will always be those days when you really don’t give a shit, you just need some space.

Never take it as rejection though. It really means that both ,you and your dominant, are human. Wow, what a concept. I know I’m just smart like that!

I figured I’d hit on this subject since both myself and my Daddy, at almost the same time went through this. Usually it lasts just a short time, we get back on track. Truth be told we can’t hold back who we really are for long. I was born submissive,  and He dominant,even when the lifestyle doesn’t seem appealing.  

Both of us needed some space, but we did communicate that to each other. At that moment, we both went our own direction to sit, think, reflect, and breathe. Does that mean we rejected each other? Most certainly not. But we are good at reading each other, giving the other some space to fall apart. We will keep texts short, and to the point, let the other know we care,but I need this time to feel how I need to feel. No one making the other feel guilty for being human.

 There’s reason for that.We both want long term, and as I’ve stated before, we both were married to other ppl, so we are trying to do something different with us. What worked, what didn’t work. In a way, it’s great that we have had these marriages even if they sucked. It was still experience . We both have some idea of what we want, need from each other.

We both suck at communication, so we have had to find what will work for us. But one thing I notice we don’t stop communication.  That only happened once, it wasn’t  good for us. So we know what we need to keep this going. We were everything to our exes, with no real outlet, the other person was our whole life. Now I know how much I love my Master, but I need time without Him. You can judge me all you like, but absence does make the heart grow fonder. When He’s out with His friends and they go on a weekend ride (motorcycles). He will text when they stop to gas up. But once Hes back and we are near each other ,OMG! I breathe better, when I fall into His arms I’m home again, that’s the stuff I Need! We missed each other,  we talk , we smile, we flirt, we kiss, we fuck, but most importantly we didn’t fall apart without each other. But we most certainly belong together! 
This is the best relationship I’ve ever been in. Daddy has stated that same thing to me. That gives me hope I need that we have both found what we are looking for, each other. Even in those days when we aren’t feeling quite like ourselves, we still belong together. 

I call it silent communication. It’s more about reading each other! The other day when He needed space, it didn’t feel like rejection, nor did I feel it was me. He did make sure He let me know it wasn’t me. But in my texts from him, I caught onto something. He cussed. Daddy never cusses, I’m the one who can cuss like a sailor on leave. But when He does cuss,  He is not doing ok. I let Him know I could tell He needed His space, and it’s happily given. I love this man I call Daddy, so much, I know He’s only human. I know once we live together we will be who we are now. We will still need that time to go thru real life shit, and maybe not in front of that person, and that’s ok.

We will both have bad days, we will both need space to fall apart. I know when He needs space He won’t be home til late, or at all. He’s thinking.  Does that mean I need Him to be by my side to tell me every little detail? No. He’s a big boy , I’m a big girl, you work shit out how you see fit. Some days He does come to me for comfort, other days He rides til He is done. I know He will be fine, He always is. We do communicate when we see each other after this time apart. Sometimes we will talk about what we were going through, sometimes not. But we know the other is in a good place, we don’t leave each other hanging.

 I have a friend that doesn’t quite understand,  she asked, ” How are you sure He’s ok if He doesn’t come to you with what He’s going thru?  How is that ok for both of you to go away from each other and not To each other?” I sort of giggled, ” life is messy, you just trust that the other person always has your back til you know otherwise. And where is it written that we must only go to each other when we are going thru something?”

She looked shocked, but she is the type of person to go to the only person in her life as shit hits the fan. Daddy and I are different. We don’t just rely on each other,  is that wrong? It doesn’t feel wrong. It feels good. What if I just needed to work on something on my own? I don’t want Him to feel rejected, but I might need my space for a bit. I’ll always find my way Home! I know where I belong, whom I belong to, Daddy! 

It hit me last night about this subject, simply because when she and her Dom went thru stuff, they only talked to each other. A lil text came across my phone, and I smiled to myself. See, it’s ok to need other ppl too! It’s not rejection, it’s not ‘I don’t love/trust that person’, it’s just getting another perspective. 

– His kitten 

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This does sound like my Master even without the collar. As He knows the collar is sacred to me, this writing is very close to how I feel, why it means so much to me. The very reason I can only give this to one man as my dominant and not go from Dom to Dom wearing many collars. Meaning, I have reasons I’ve never worn a collar offered from a dominant,  as of yet. It is a most sacred trust that you are asking for, or giving. It’s to be taken quite seriously, as a proposal. The collar I would receive will be mine because One finds me worthy, not just to own me. But proud of the deeper meaning for us both. We are one. I have never taken this lightly, and I never will. Most subs/slaves I have trained often wonder why I don’t congratulate them on getting a collar in under a year. Because you don’t need me to explain something only my heart and soul can barely put into words. I was trained to honor a collar that I accept. If this dominant  will  be in my life forever and we have enough time together to prove this, there’s no need ask if I wear your collar, you already know the answer, it is a gift like my submission was when we were first together.  If these things are not present between us, please do not ask I would never accept.  

I guess in a way I always knew I wasn’t about to just be collared to say, “Look at me! I’m a collared submissive”. I could care less what the world thinks, or anyone in the lifestyle for that matter. Only my dominant, and only my heart.  

Time will tell, my patience will be rewarded. So will the meaning. The one true dominant who has my heart will be the only one I accept, ever. He knows who He is! Mark my words, this will be the only collar I ever wear.

Beautiful writing even if it’s only a book. Seems whoever wrote this understands what a collar actually means. 

Obeying, or merely the act of

In our lifestyle this is a word we throw around a lot. Let’s face it, it’s how our relationships work in this dynamic. One gives orders, one obeys orders. But it’s not that you obey that can be the problem, but ‘how’ you obey. This can make or break a submissive. We do answer to a higher power. 

What do I mean? It’s the intent of your heart.  Do you respect your dominant so much that no matter what, you will obey? This does not mean to just blindly say yes because you fear your dominant could leave you, if you are a long time slave/sub then you know what I’m talking about. But heartfelt servitude. 

Does your dominant call the shots? We aren’t surprised! What things are forbidden to you: shopping, certain foods/drinks,etc… Now you have a situation on your hands. Your mind wants to start obsessing over what it wants. You start to reason or justify why you should have your way. Do you obey? I’m not sure everyone does. In my own mind I know could do it, but at what consequence?  My Daddy can be evil, so it’s not worth the risk for the reward. I would rather ask. Plus He always asks if I’ve been a good girl. I get so excited cuz ‘I have!’ I have nothing to confess. 

Every dominant reading this right now is thinking , “of course she better obey my words and commands”. But think about that a minute. You have this person who will dedicate themself to you, puts you first, serves you.  Have you ever visited forbidden things and let your submissive have those things,  just every once in a while? My Master actually does. I’m not allowed pop, but when we are dining out together He can choose to let me have this,  not always but He does say yes sometimes. Which makes me feel like He understands what it’s like to go without something you love. I do wish He understood that time of the month and my craving for chocolate.  I don’t want a lot, just a kit Kat bar, or a 2 pack Reeses peanut butter cups would help the craving subside, it’s been there so long,since I was a teen  I wish it would  would change,  sadly it has not. This does mean I would break my Masters trust. It is not worth the risk to me either.

Sometimes you can get to a point that you want to throw the rules out the window and do it anyway, or think to yourself, ‘ my dominant is not here, they will never know’ . Your dominant might not know, but you will. You have to live with yourself, be mindful of how you treat your dominant even when they are not present.  For me, I have told on myself, the guilt eats me up inside. I need to feel clean before Him. I have had friends tell me I do this just to get spanked, believe me that’s not my reason. But one lie can lead to more. You put your relationship in jeopardy. You’ve hurt the trust. This dynamic is set up a certain way, this is what you crave is dominance, rules, structure. For me personally I do need this lifestyle. I know what’s expected of me. For instance, last night. Daddy had already let me know I could spend time with my bff, do what we want, I couldn’t spend money, and it would have to be something Daddy would approve of. I know exactly what He approves of. So that way if He’s busy, like last night, I still follow my rules and He knows what I’m doing at all times. He doesn’t have to worry about me. But when we first started dating, I wasn’t sure this was gonna work out. Most Doms before Him weren’t looking for a relationship, just sex, so it was to new to tell if He was for real yet. I had gone to a party and out til like 3am with my other bff. Daddy never got 1 text from me. Once He knew what had happened, and expressed His anger over it, I was feeling like, “You were serious about that?” He showed me how serious He was. I felt that for days. Now we’ve been together for a while, ( almost a year and a half!) and i know exactly what’s expected of me. And I obey! There’s that word again! It’s a very real thing in our lives. I take it very seriously. I don’t like the lesson. 

Now, you might start reasoning. ‘ I just wanted…’  I know, I get it, but you’re doing it wrong and you know it. I will ask my Master for what I’m wanting or craving. I’m hoping He will say yes, but He doesn’t always. On the rare occasions when He does, I’m grateful that He let me have my request and I thank Him. He didn’t have to say yes, plus I want Him to trust me. Now when He says no, it’s much harder. I will send a text back so He knows I understand that His no means no. As I stated before , the only time I really wish He would change is when it’s my time of the month, that craving is so strong, but I do Stick to obeying. I used to have my girls that do get that craving that time of the month, and would tell me to do it anyway sighting that He’s a man and will never understand that time of the month. My argument to them is,” He has His reasons”, my rules are for me to be better, not to harm me or have me resent Him. I do follow with a slave heart. Believe me, I’m only human so the thoughts do cross my mind, I just don’t act on them. 

For those of us who obey all the time. We know what it is like to put our dominant first, how hard that is some days. There are those moments when it’s hard to convey why you are asking. But once we have gotten the opposite answer of what we wanted , how do you feel? Do you still behave and obey? Will you act like a brat and make Him sorry? Will you do it anyway? These are all real questions we are faced with,  real struggles.  Here is the topper, how will you treat your dominant when you are face to face? With deep respect?  I hope so. Can you still serve them wholeheartedly knowing they may never say yes to your wants or desires? Again, I hope so. 
Your rules are not meant to harm you. They are for your good. So you can serve to make your dominant happy.  Even when faced with a no I don’t disrespect my Daddy, I don’t bad mouth Him, I try my hardest not to ask why, I know I can still serve with a happy heart, that is all a dominant can hope for. That you still happily serve. Not be bratty,  or insufferable, this does not make your dominant wish to say yes next time, it really has the opposite affect. Go figure, lol. Our job as being submissive is not always easy. Only you can tell if this is something you can do. 

Obeying is a good thing, a very good thing. But how you obey says a lot too. Try to think on reasons of why you obey. Stay strong! And then do one more step, watch how you act. If you need some time to accept you won’t be getting your way then take that time. Your dominant would understand,  but to misbehave well that could get you into trouble, or if you kept up your bad attitude, maybe released from your dominant.

Think of all the ways you obey everyday. Street lights, street signs, police, laws, you pay for stuff you want/need, your job. See , we obey all the time, we just need to remember why we want to obey our dominants! 

This is what the lifestyle is about, well one aspect. It’s a big part though. So if you are just playing games, any real dominant will figure you out. And for that new crop of sub/slave who believe they hold the power, you had power for 5 mins, now it’s time to obey or shut up. 

A Dominants imperfect side. Love them anyway 

​The Imperfect Dominants’ Charter

• I will fuck up, more than once. On at least one of those occasions, you will suffer because of it.
• I will not always be good enough, or strong enough, or wise enough.
• I won’t treat you as you deserve to be treated all the time. I will have bad days and that will affect how I am with you.
• I will give in to my emotions sometimes, and you will see me in a light that you may not want to as a result.
• Sometimes, the dynamic that we have worked so hard to create will be the last thing on Earth I want to think about.
• I will misread you, and misunderstand you.
• I won’t always know what you are feeling, even if you tell me. My responses to that will be incorrect, and will make things worse.
• My life will get in the way of our relationship, and what we want from each other. I will not always handle this as well as I could.
• I will depend on you, and I will need you to guide me sometimes.
• I will ask you to make decisions when you want me to make them, because I am not able to do so at that time.
• I will not always give you as much attention as you need. And I won’t realize that I have done this.
• I will lose my patience with you sometimes.
• I will not always be able to give you what you want, now or in the future.
• I will suffer from jealousy and insecurity. And you will suffer from my jealousy and insecurity in turn.
• I will not always deserve you, nor understand what you see in me.
• Just as you crave my attention, sometimes I will crave for you to leave me alone.
• I will not always communicate with you as well as I should. I will want to keep things to myself that I shouldn’t, and some of the things I do share with you, I will do so in an unhelpful way.
• There will be times when I am happy when you aren’t, and resent that you don’t match my mood. There will be times when I am unhappy when you aren’t, and resent that you don’t match my mood.
• I will feel guilty about what you give me, and inadequate about what I give to you.
• I won’t always like you, nor you always like me.
• We will argue and disagree, and we won’t always handle this like adults.
• I will forget things, important things that matter to you, and will need to be reminded of them.
• I will struggle with my own rules.
• I will sometimes be unable to take control of myself, let alone another.
• I will sometimes resent the responsibility our relationship places on me.
But most importantly:
• I will accept that while neither of us want any of the above to happen, sooner or later it will. And while I will always be at my best when trying to be the perfect Dominant, I will get closest to that by accepting that I am not.
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This is a most beautiful and honest writing. As I said love your dominant anyway, for they love us with such strength through all the good and bad. This  lifestyle is not easy, but always worth It!
Love you Daddy♡