Do I want these things?

As Daddy and I were recently talking ,He wondered if I wanted these things:

I’ll admit when I got married the first time I  didn’t get most of these things. No ring, no beautiful wedding, no honeymoon. But I also didn’t get married for love. Things with Daddy are much different, I took my time to make sure He is the person I really wanted in my life. I didn’t rush into anything. I do want a future with Him. Question is, do I really need all those things, or just exist peacefully under the same roof with the man I love and that would be enough?

I gotta say, I never saw myself getting married again. But the idea of marrying someone who loves me, wants me in their life for more than just sex is wonderful! We have tons in common. I want to serve Him. I love our family. We just fit together perfectly. It works so well without the ring,wedding, marriage now…

Ahh , but the romantic in my soul sees all the things I’ve never had and wants them! As long as He does! It would be nice to have something wonderful with Him, as long as He feels the same way!

So there’s your answer Daddy❤️

Oh what a night!

Let me start by saying: I have the best Daddy in the world!

Why? Glad you asked. Well if you follow my blog (thank you for following) then you know I’m a handful. You probably feel for my Daddy that He has His hands full with me. Then add in that He has to work, raise kids, be with family and friends. I’m like a part time job?… full time job?… not sure which one!

Yesterday was Daddys birthday, and I tried to give Him everything He asked for plus some extra things. I like to spoil Daddy too! Well, things fell apart, Daddy didn’t get His most wanted gift. I worked hard but I failed. I don’t like failure, I took  it very hard. Daddy was kind and powerful, as He is over everything.

While I was feeling moody cuz it all went wrong, Daddy had other plans. I’m glad He did ,cuz it was the best time. We spent time watching a show together, just laughing. Then we decided to go out to dinner for sushi, Daddys choice. But before we leave the parking lot, Daddy hands me something,  it’s a ring! How is it that it’s Daddys birthday but I get the present? It’s beautiful! I love it! The whole night was just fun after that moment. Dinner was good, I’m glad I tried new things. Well He made me! Lol

Once back home we talked to my kids and once Daddy was out, I got Him to bed. It was the first time, that I remember,  that we didn’t have sex and then fall asleep. It didn’t feel like sex was missing at all. It was still a great night together! I had one of my kids take a pic of my ring so I could show my friends.

Daddy, did wake me up early for some play time! Oh!!! My!!! God!!! He breathed on my neck,  oh fuck, and then lightly sucked it. My body went off the deep end,I was horny as fuck, ok more than usual. My neck is one of those areas that get me going. Then we fell asleep, woke a bit later to do it again! My ass is sore too, not from what you think, dirty minded people. It’s sore cuz He’s been leaving some marks on it. They sting, I say ‘ow’ He starts all over again. Not the funnest game for me.

If this is even close to what life will be like with Him, damn…i am the luckiest girl ever! The way He talks to me , shares with me, shows me the way He wants me to go. He doesn’t let me get out of hand. There is more but these are the things I notice the most. The respect I show Him cuz I love Him. I’m a very happy girl, that is until He had to go this morning. I got teary, I missed Him the moment the door closed behind Him. I’m so in love with my Daddy!

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My gift from Daddy, thank you Daddy♡ The part makes me tear up about Daddy, is no man has ever cared for me like He does. I would like to stop crying, I’m not much of a cryer, or I wasn’t before Him. It is everything to me to be loved like He loves. That He wants the best for me/Us. I know I’m on His mind. I know I’m important, even when I screw up or can’t give Him everything He desires. But threesomes are a ‘must’. I want Daddy to have that as long as we are together!

-babygirl

Promise rings/engagement rings

While this has been a discussion in one of my Facebook lifestyle groups, and among me and my friends.  I strongly believe in promise rings, I think they give you time to commit to the relationship,  after a significant amount of time of being together, and if or when it feels like the right thing to do, then get the little lady an engagement ring.

Promise rings have been around since ancient times. There were many reasons for giving them. But in modern times promise rings have made a huge comeback. Now couples wear them together, especially lifestyle couples. They symbolize loyalty and fidelity,  what better way to show each other you are more than just dating, you taken your relationship to the next level, even if you are both not quite ready for an engagement,  especially if you have been married before, or just like the idea of waiting til you are fully ready for that kind of commitment between you both.

Promise rings show that this is a special moment for you both. It is a lifelong vow. Use this as a symbol of your love and commitment to one another. Do make sure you discuss the meaning of your promise ring. Will this be all there is, just the next level up from dating, or will it lead to marriage when it’s the right time for you both. It needs to be known what the intention is.

What does the promise ring symbolize for most:  it should not be taken lightly.  These are given after a significant amount of time. While some couples may not be ready for marriage, some might not even want that kind of commitment in their relationship, but still want a way to feel committed, more than living together and just paying bills.

There’s no right or wrong way to give one. But it shouldn’t look like an engagement ring at all. Small gemstones, birthstones, some sort of design that you both like. Or even commitment rings, and you both wear them. If this is to lead to marriage, this gives you more time to be ready for thst type of responsibility and commitment of a deeper level. The ring is to be worn on the left ring finger still, because there is a vein that connects straight from the finger to the heart. It should NOT look like an engagement ring at all. There is a difference between the two.

The discussion went well. Most understood that myself and some of my girlfriends feel very strongly about this. So many give engagement rings without it being the right moment of time in your life. Take your time. Both come with a level of  commitment,  but one has less than the other. That way if it just didn’t work out, it’s not the end of the world. There is no planning a wedding. Now if that is the future for you both, still take your time. You can even do the promise ring and collaring, if you felt you like that would be right for you both.

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See, much smaller than an engagement ring. Still pretty. Not expensive.

Now you have options

-babygirl